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November 29, 2010

Isaac's 8th Month

Isaac continues to eat more and more foods and quantities (in addition to the foods from last month he's now had black and pinto beans, peas, pears, cheese, chex cereal as I was making Chex Mix!, yogurt, chicken and carrots). He has started using his fingers to pinch Cheerio's, as opposed to the raking motion. He's also much more coordinated in feeding himself than he used to be. It's fun to watch how quickly he progresses. We've tried putting small bites of food on his tray for him to self-feed, but he just looks at it and squawks at it/you until you feed it to him! It's funny to me, since already by this age Kayla refused to be fed with a spoon. How different their personalities are! We are feeding him dinner every day, and try to get in at least 1 other meal sometime (either b-fast or lunch). I actually really hate this transition time from solely nursing to solely eating foods. I struggle with how much to feed him, how often, etc. I know it should be easy, since I'm already feeding Kayla 3 meals plus snacks, so you would think that I would also easily transition him into this as well. But I'm not! I've gotten used to being able to eat b-fast myself, empty the dishwasher, pack Kayla's lunch for preschool, etc. while she eats. To suddenly have to spoon feed him during that time is a rough adjustment!! And he often is napping during lunch time, so I haven’t figured out how to make that work yet. Work in progress I guess. I struggled with this transition with Kayla too, and she turned out to be a great eater, so I guess I shouldn't worry!



He's now more or less stable while sitting. I'll leave him sitting and am free to go into the other room. Although whenever I sit him up I make sure there isn't anything hard by his head that he would hit should he fall when I am gone.





He can army crawl and slowly move from one side of the room to the other. He hasn't ever ventured out of the room to follow me, but I'm sure I'm not too far from that. If we put him up on all 4's he will rock back and forth until he lunges himself on his belly and then will army crawl!

He can push himself half way into a sitting position, but needs help to get all the way up. If we hold him by his fingers, he happily will walk. But he's nowhere near sturdy enough to stand on his own yet!



His sleep continues to be hit or miss.... on a rare occasion he will sleep through the night, but most typically he is up once. Actually, he is usually up once in my night of sleep, but he usually wakes up to eat between 10-11, so I guess it's up 2x in his night of sleep. He is eating once in the early AM (somewhere 2-5, quite the range) and then again at give or take 9, 1, 5 and then 10. Ideally he will start more consistently sleeping through the night, and we can adjust the feedings to more of an 8,12,4,8 thing. He is going to bed around 8, and he just isn't hungry at that time, so I don't feed him... but then he'll wake up after just a few hours to eat. So, I'm trying to figure out what I can do to try to change his routine... or just be patient until he adjusts to that himself. He continues to love sleeping with something over his head, in the picture below it’s his lovey (you'll probably need to click to enlarge to see it)!




He loves wheels. He seems fascinated by them! He loves books, and I mention last month that I was going to put forth extra effort to read him baby books, and I can say that I did follow through with that! But it is near impossible to read them to him! He just wants to put it in his mouth! So very badly! He'll grab at the pages and flip them and then just grabs the whole book and tries to shove it in his mouth!! On the rare occasion that he lets me turn a page or two, he sure does love to look at the pictures and in touch-and-feel books he (sometimes) likes to touch them. But mostly he wants to eat them :)


I was pretty excited that Isaac fit into the same Thanksgiving shirt that Kayla did. Kayla was 3.5 months at Thanksgiving, and the 6 month shirt was a bit big on her. Isaac was 8 months, and the shirt was a little short in the arms, but it still fit! At 6 months their stats were quite similar, I’ll be interested to see how they are next time I get him checked! Below Kayla is on the left and Isaac on the right.




I am totally loving my little man and really enjoying watching him grow and develop. We know we are truly blessed to have the privilege to raise him.

November 28, 2010

Thanksgiving 2010

We hosted Thanksgiving again this year at our house. We love having family come in town for this holiday and the chance to entertain. Sometimes I wish I had more time/energy/resources to decorate my house all cute and spend time making the dinner table look "perfect". But in reality, that's not me! I like to plan, organize, shop, and coordinate the weekend. And I think it went great and everyone had a good time! So, I call it a success!

My parents and grandparents were able to come a day early this year, and made it in town on Tuesday for lunch. Kayla was so excited to see them all and warmed right up to my grandparents, who she only sees once a year! It was fun to see them all interact, and to have my grandparents meet Isaac for the first time.



The Taylor's arrived on Wednesday afternoon, and Kayla was thrilled to see them too! We are so lucky to have 2 sides of the family that have such great love for us and our kids.




Thursday was filled with food and fun. I think Uncle Brian played about 100 games of hide and seek with Kayla, and she could not be happier about it! He even tried to teach her how to hide better (meaning, not saying, "I'm going to hide here, come try to find me!"). As always, a team effort went into preparing the meal - from prep work to cooking to dish washing to setting the table to... watching the Patriots win!! :) Then we all enjoyed the wonderful fruits of our labor!


The day after Thanksgiving we all relaxed. My grandparents took us all out to lunch that day and everyone made a trip to Costco!! We played cards and ate leftovers. David's family (as always) got up early to do Black Friday shopping. David came home with a 4 ft snowman that now resides in our front yard :)



After more cards and crafts and conversations, Kayla and Laura made and decorated sugar cookies!!



My family left after breakfast on Saturday and we spent the day with the Taylor's. Kayla and Isaac went swimming at the pool in their hotel and then we went out to dinner. It was another nice and relaxing day.



As always, it is so special to host this holiday and we are so thankful for our families who travel so far to join us!



November 15, 2010

Getting Organized!

So I mentioned a few months ago how overwhelmed I am by running a household. And I know that it isn't important to have a spick and span house, thankfully. But, I do have some standards! Toilets need to be cleaned at some point; sheets do need to be washed sometimes! And I did not see how that was possible. But, I thought about it, and it's not that I have ZERO time to do things. It's that I have very limited time to do things. And that limited time is also the only time I have to myself to rest, check emails, do something for myself, etc. So in order for me to actually be able to get something done, I kind of need a plan.

Since I'm a huge list person, I decided that I'd make a list of all of the household chores that I think need to be done.... and then I set a time period as-to how often I think they should be done (daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, etc). I tried to be reasonable in my expectations. Sure, it would be nice to have my floor vacuumed frequently, but it's more realistic for me to say that it should be done every other week. Sure, it would be nice to sort through our toys once a month, but it's more realistic to have it done once a quarter. I figured I better start with low expectations, and then I can always choose to do things more often. Then I took a calendar and divvied up the chores and set a schedule up for myself! Now I'm trying to find time each day to do the things on my list, even if it's only a minute or two.. Things like laundry and dishes and cooking are all daily tasks that I didn't take into account and put on the calendar. And sometimes those things are completely overwhelming to me and that's all I can get done (or can't get done some days!). But having a list really helps me stay focused and keeps me accountable to doing something, but not overwhelmed by the thought of doing everything!

I know this sounds stupid, but I totally love it! I get to cross things off a list! I don't feel as overwhelmed! I am actually getting things done!! Now, I don't always get everything done on my lists, and I'm only 2 months into this thing! But that's not the point. The point is that I'm getting some things done, and that's a start! And isn't that what life is about? I'm never going to have everything figured out, it's always a work in progress. But for me, this list is a step in the right direction.